If someone who you’re close to has a drug addiction, it may be hard to know what you should do to help. A drug addiction can physically alter the brain. The body becomes addicted and will tell the person that she needs the drug to survive. Because it becomes a survival need, addicts will do or say anything they need to get more of that drug. Here’s what you can do to help:
Say something: Tell the person that you care and you want to help them get over their addiction. Knowing that they have support may be enough to help them want to change.
Don’t support the habit: If a person claims that if you will help one more time then he’ll get help, don’t believe him. As stated above, an addict will say anything to get the next fix. Also, if he is spending all of his money on drugs and now can’t pay the rent, utility bills or for food, don’t help pay for these things. Just because you’re not paying for drugs doesn’t mean you aren’t supporting the habit.
Don’t lie for the drug user: It’s instinctual to lie for the user and make up excuses why he wasn’t able to go to work or why he missed out on a family event. This doesn’t help him overcome his problem. This may prevent him from getting the help he needs. If others know, they might be willing to help support him in getting help.
Watch out for codependency: Some people become addicted to helping an addict. This can turn into an unhealthy relationship because the helper doesn’t really want to help the drug user get better because then the helper will no longer be needed.
As a last resort, you might want to consider encouraging your loved one to go register at one of the alcohol and drug treatment centers in your area.